People need encouragement to take action.
What you see is filtered through your beliefs. You rarely see "reality." You see your version of it.
A goal should scare you a little, and excite you a lot.
Our beliefs are creating our reality.
When you resist doing what you know needs done, it is difficult. Find a mental way to enjoy it, and just do it, and it is easy.
As soon as you start to feel differently about what you already have, you will start to attract more of the good things, more of the things you can be grateful for.