When you are in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude. We don't get to know people when they come to us; we must go to them to find out what they are like.
Johann Wolfgang von GoetheNothing tells more about the character of a man than the things he makes fun of.
Johann Wolfgang von GoetheI have always paid attention to the merits of my enemies, and found it an advantage.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe