Depth of feeling and clarity of thought isn’t the same as knowing.
You are able to come from openness and softness in an instant.
For you to have real love, you need to be able to move past your self.
When you are being true to what you know in your heart, your whole heart becomes clean.
What you really are isn’t loyal to your self. It won’t favor your self. It will turn your self into what you really are.
If you move as a being in every experience of your self, your being replaces your self.