You may wish to be loving - you may even try with all your might - but your love will never be pure unless you are free from resentment. When we are free from resentment, loving is effortless. When we have to try hard to love, this is generally a sign that we are repressing our resentments.
John GrayA women under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood
John GrayMen are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.
John GrayLove brings up our unresolved feelings . One day we are feeling loved , and the next day we are suddenly afraid to trust love . The painful memories of being rejected begin to surface when we are faced with trusting and accepting our partner's love .
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