Nothing to be gained by worrying between now and then.

In the end the listening exposes you even more than it exposes the people you're trying to listen to.

I did some research on this a couple years ago," Augustus continued. "I was wondering if everybody could be remembered. Like, if we got organized, and assigned a certain number of corpses to each living person, would there be enough living people to remember all the dead people?" "And are there?" "Sure, anyone can name fourteen dead people. But we're disorganized mourners, so a lot of people end up remembering Shakespeare and no one ends up remembering the person he wrote Sonnet Fifty-five about

I can't remember, because I never knew.

March 4th, the only day that is also a sentence

Grief doesn't change you. It reveals you.

You get all these friends just when you don’t need friends anymore.