Donโt you understand?โ he would say, โYou imagine the story better than I remember it.
John IrvingSafer than we are.โ I told Franny. โSafer than love.โ โlet me tell ya kid,โ Franny said to me, squeezing my hand. โEverythingโs safer than love.
John IrvingI have learned that the consequences of our past actions are always interesting; I have learned to view the present with a forward-looking eye.
John IrvingItยดs natural to want someone you love to do what you want, or what you think would be good for them, but you have to let everything happen to them. You can't interfere with people you love any more than you're supposed to interfere with people you don't even know. And that's hard, ..., because you often feel like interfering -you want to be the one who makes the plans.
John Irving