I was brought up in a community, in a family that valued such things as good manners, and I still do.
John IrvingThe more clearly one sees this world; the more one is obliged to pretend it does not exist.
John IrvingTed Seabrooke, my wrestling coach, had a kind of Nietzschean effect on me in terms of not just his estimation of my limited abilities, but his decidedly philosophical stance about how to conduct your life, what you should do to compensate for your limitations. This was essential to me, both as a student - and not a good one - and as a wrestler who was not a natural athlete but who had found something he loved.
John Irving