Your character will be what you yourself choose to make it.
Time is a trust, and for every minute of it you will have to account.
If you have the least doubt about it, do not marry.
Life is a great gift, and as we reach years of discretion, most of us naturally ask ourselves what should be the main object of our existence.
Our own happiness ought not to be our main objective in life.
Rest is by no means a waste of time.