Pressed, I would define spirituality as the shadow of light humanity casts as it moves through the darkness of everything that can be explained.
John UpdikeSeemed to me important in writing about people to be able to describe the sexual transactions between them. It's - for many people it's the height of, what they see, of ecstasy and poetry is in their sexual encounters. And furthermore, personality - human personality does not end in the bedroom, but persists.
John Updike