The choice you make, makes you.
You cannot antagonize and be a positive influence, and you will antagonize when you discipline through emotion.
I think you have to be what you are. Don't try to be somebody else. You have to be yourself at all times.
The ability to see the good in others and the bad in ourselves is perfect vision.
If we fail to adapt, we fail to move forward.
You will never outperform your inner circle.