You can't compartmentalize unforgiveness. You can't control sin. You can't manage sin. Sin is never satisfied with the amount of you it possesses.
The greatest joy of my is when Jesus moves on my heart and tells me to give to someone.
What seems over your head is always under His feet.
If a preacher tells you how God says you are, I don't see how you can say that's bad preaching.
I don't know of a way to have a generous church without a generous pastor.
You can fall in the area of your strength as easily as you could fall in the area of your weakness.