So who is better off, those who share love long enough to see which parts inevitably fade or those who lose their love when it is still pristine? I think each is lonely in a different place, though if you lose your love while it is still perfect you at least have a clear explanation for your grief, while if it gradually crumbles in your hands you do not.
Jonathan HullLove is self-explanatory: the right person makes you feel well nigh immortal, vaccinating you with their affections. So long as you remain in their heart you are safe, or better than safe even, for a while at least. You are momentarily, in a state of grace.
Jonathan HullI donโt think we ever really live in the present; instead, weโre either just this side of the past or future, wavering anxiously between anticipation and recollection. Thatโs where I lived my life, always wanting, longing, wishing.
Jonathan HullIf love doesnโt triumph, it ought to. For love is the one thing we have that feels more powerful than even death; the only respite from lifeโs wretched absurdity. The magic of love is not that it contains all the answers, itโs that it eliminates the need for so many pressing questions. For love makes us feel like gods--and thatโs what weโre really after, isnโt it?
Jonathan HullBooks arenโt just my defenses, the sandbags I use to fortify my position; they are also the building blocks of my soul, and I am the sum of all I read.
Jonathan HullI think we all look for clues that we are not utterly alone... Clues we find in literature and paintings and music and even someoneโs eyes; clues that demonstrate that someone else has felt the same indescribable feelings, seen the same things or passed by the spot even if it was by candlelight three hundred years ago. It means everything, like finding footprints in the sand of a deserted island.
Jonathan Hull