Just because something is good doesn't mean we should pursue it right now. We have to remember that the right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing.

A defining reality for me is what Scripture teaches in Hebrews 12, that God is our father, and that a sign that he loves us is that he disciplines us, he takes us through hardship to build character in us that could not be shaped apart from difficulty.

Terms don't define our lives; our lives define our terms.

Every relationship for a Christian is an opportunity to love another person like God has loved us.

The right thing at the wrong tme is the wrong thing.

I'm not saying dating is sinful, and I'm not saying a guy and a girl should never spend time alone together. I'm saying let's wait until we can be purposeful, so there's a reason behind our relationship, and we're not just stirring up passion for the sake of a good time.

God gave people 2 ears and 1 mouth because He wants us to listen twice as much as we talk.