The thing about sex is not that you're naked physically, but if you do it right, that you're naked emotionally.

If we give up the notion that everybody’s life is perfect but ours, we would be a lot happier. Nobody’s life is perfect.

The thing about sex is not that you're naked physically, but if you do it right, that you're naked emotionally.

Just trying to do something - just being there, showing up - is how we get braver. Self-esteem is about doing.

Sex is ... scratching an itch Everything else is something we project on a very simple act. It's the psychology, not the biology, that's complicated.

Once you become aware of what means the most to you, you're less likely to put off something that's really valuable for something that matters much less... it's knowing the difference between what's important and what isn't that allows us to solve problems effectively.

Getting enough of what you want without depriving anyone else is the ultimate act of selfishness and sanity.