When in doubt, do the obvious.

In its purest form, dating is auditioning for mating (and auditioning means we may or may not get the part).

Just trying to do something - just being there, showing up - is how we get braver. Self-esteem is about doing.

If we give up the notion that everybody’s life is perfect but ours, we would be a lot happier. Nobody’s life is perfect.

When in doubt, do the obvious.

Sex is ... scratching an itch Everything else is something we project on a very simple act. It's the psychology, not the biology, that's complicated.

Charity always feels better to the donor than to the recipient.