In its purest form, dating is auditioning for mating (and auditioning means we may or may not get the part).

Charity always feels better to the donor than to the recipient.

If we give up the notion that everybody’s life is perfect but ours, we would be a lot happier. Nobody’s life is perfect.

In its purest form, dating is auditioning for mating (and auditioning means we may or may not get the part).

The American notion of family is perhaps the most romanticized, deep-rooted, and misery-producing fantasy of the last hundred years.

Just trying to do something - just being there, showing up - is how we get braver. Self-esteem is about doing.

Sex is ... scratching an itch Everything else is something we project on a very simple act. It's the psychology, not the biology, that's complicated.