How does the poet transform his banal thoughts (are not most thoughts banal?) into such stunning forms, into beauty?
Joyce Carol OatesI don't know what marriages are like in general, but there are many things which I don't talk about with my husband. We discuss practical problems, but I wouldn't sit down with him and talk about the distant past. It's somewhat in contrast to other Americans, who feel that they have to confess things, but I'm really not like that.
Joyce Carol Oates