you have to realize that you don't have someone else's life and your never going to. You better start loving the one you got. Embrass the life you have and stop wishing that you could be someone else. Just stop all that and start saying "God here I am. Do what you want to do with me".

Compliment people. Magnify their strengths, not their weaknesses.

There is no man on Earth or devil in Hell who can keep you from the very best God put in you.

Satan can control you if you let outward things determine your security.

Unforgiveness is spiritual filthiness, so get washed in the water of God's Word to forgive and stay clean.

Stop being tomented by everyone else's reaction to you.

I believe, when in my behavior or in relationships or in the way I react to something, that I'm still dealing with some leftover stuff from my childhood, but the good thing is now, because I have learned so much from the Bible, I can tell when I'm behaving wrong and when I'm not, and it doesn't take me very long to realize that's out of fear, or that's because I was controlled as a child, and I can make a conscious decision to behave the way I know I should behave.