Self Pity is the most miserable party to go to, because, in case you haven't noticed, you're the only one who is there.
Joyce MeyerEverytime you feed the flesh, you strenghten it. This is good if you are trying to build a good habit, but detrimental if you are trying to stop a bad habit. The way to "kill the flesh" is to starve it; to stop feeding it.
Joyce Meyer