Love is not a state, a feeling, a disposition, but an exchange, uneven, fraught with history, with ghosts, with longings that are more or less legible to those who try to see one another with their own faulty vision.
Judith ButlerI do know that some people believe that I see gender as a "choice" rather than as an essential and firmly fixed sense of self. My view is actually not that. No matter whether one feels one's gendered and sexed reality to be firmly fixed or less so, every person should have the right to determine the legal and linguistic terms of their embodied lives.
Judith ButlerWe have to have a very strong criticism of modes of cooperation that entrench inequality.
Judith ButlerWe act and walk and speak and talk in ways that consolidate an impression of being a man or being a woman.
Judith Butler