I think it's important to live with a certain danger and a certain risk.

Let's face it. We're undone by each other. And if we're not, we're missing something. If this seems so clearly the case with grief, it is only because it was already the case with desire. One does not always stay intact.

Perhaps the promise of phallus is always dissatisfying in some way.

I want to say that the way in which we understand gender actually changes the way we live gender.

I think that public grieving is a good thing. People need to be grieved; loss needs to be acknowledged publicly, because it helps to confer a sense of reality on the loss but also because it makes it known that this was a real life.

When we say gender is performed, we usually mean that weve taken on a role or were acting in some way and that our acting or our role playing is crucial to the gender that we are and the gender that we present to the world.

I must say, I feel the reception of my work is none of my business.