Manners require showing consideration of all human beings, not just the ones to whom one is close.
Judith MartinWhen politeness is used to show up other people, it is reclassified as rudeness. Thus it is technically impossible to be too polite.
Judith MartinEtiquette enables you to resolve conflict without just trading insults. Without etiquette, the irritations in modern life are so abrasive that you see people turning to the law to regulate everyday behavior. This frightens me; it's a major inroad on our basic freedoms.
Judith MartinMost people who work at home find they do not have the benefit of receptionists who serve as personal guards
Judith Martin