There's an expression: Great is the enemy of the good. Sometimes in trying to be great, you make a mess of things.
I just can't seem to make myself care about what I look like when I am working out.
I have three kids. I should know how to take care of them.
As a matter of fact, I get a little concerned about some of my anti-social habits.
At restaurants, I carry paper and markers and tell everyone to draw a picture with a unicorn, an octopus and an explosion. That keeps kids still for a minute.
I count myself lucky to be fairly anonymous but occasionally have people tell me nice things.