Let me say to begin with: It is not neurotic to have conflict ... Conflicts within ourselves are an integral part of human life.
Karen HorneyBecause it corresponds to a vital need, love is overvalued in our culture. It becomes a phantom - like success - carrying with it the illusion that it is a solution for all problems.
Karen HorneyThe conception of what is normal varies not only with the culture but also within the same culture, in the course of time.
Karen HorneyNo one โฆ can entirely step out of his time, that despite his keenness of vision his thinking is in many ways bound to be influenced by the mentality of his time
Karen Horneythe idea of a finished human product not only appears presumptuous but even, in my opinion, lacks any strong appeal. Life is struggle and striving, development and growth - and analysis is one of the means that can help in this process. Certainly its positive accomplishments are important, but also the striving itself is of intrinsic value.
Karen Horney