God is not attracted to mountaintops or church steeples. God is drawn to suffering, and the dark places it surfaces, which is why sharing pain freely feels very much like love, and may be the same thing. (207)
Keith AblowThe roots of any evil deed can be traced to the perpetrator's refusal to experience pain.
Keith AblowWhen people can do something simple to avoid conflict--say, hit a button or unlock a latch--they'll generally do it.
Keith Ablow