The primary symptom of a controller is denial, that is I can't see its symptoms in myself.

A lot of us have jobs where we need to give people structure but that is different from controlling.

Religious work is one of the best ways to keep from facing your reality if you are Christian, if you are using it to calm the pain, because that it what all addictions are, attempts to cover the pain of this spiritual disease

A spiritual person is also in touch with his or her own reality, feelings and thoughts, and the reality of the people around him or her, not projecting on them.

I am six feet tall. I am not supposed to be afraid.

Prayer no longer seems like an activity to me; it has become the continuing language of the relationship I believe God designed to fulfill a human life.

We religious controllers control in the name of Jesus and it is really painful to people