I have been a ballerina, a cheerleader and a sorority girl. I was the girliest girl alive.

I once heard someone say that the concept of moderation seems a little extreme, and tonight...I agree.

I think for one, we have to really accept that anger is a normal human emotion that can be a positive force for change.

I am aware that somewhere along the line, I've subconsciously turned down the pitch of my speech, like a silencer of a gun that softens the sound of its firing. Now, even when I yell, I don't feel like I am using my full voice.

I dont know where the idea originated that memoir writing is cathartic. For me, its always felt like playing my own neurosurgeon, sans anesthesia. As a memoirist, you have to crack your head open and examine every uncomfortable thing in there.

I think statistics go in one ear and out the other. All of us respond to stories more than numbers.

My demeanor isn't that of a woman enraged. To see me slumped, glassy-eyed, holding a sandwich someone has cut for me into four "manageable" pieces, a person might tell you I look much more like a woman subdued.