I am good to people who are good. I am also good to people who are not good. Because Virtue is goodness.
LaoziWhen armies are mobilized and issues joined, the man who is sorry over the fact will always win.
LaoziPride attaches undue importance to the superiority of one's status in the eyes of others; and shame is fear of humiliation at one's inferior status in the estimation of others. When one sets one's heart on being highly esteemed, and achieves such rating, then he or she is automatically involved in fear of losing status.
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