The truly wise are content to be last. They are, therefore, first. They are indifferent to themselves. They are, therefore self-confident.
LaoziI have three precious things which I hold fast and prize. The first is gentleness; the second frugality; the third is humility, which keeps me from putting myself before others. Be gentle and you can be bold; be frugal and you can be liberal; avoid putting yourself before others and you can become a leader among men.
Laozi