To lead, one must follow.
Quiet your mind and stop judging and resisting and manipulating the natural way.
A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent upon arriving. A good artist lets his intuition lead him wherever it wants. A good scientist has freed himself of concepts and keeps his mind open to what is.
The master understands that the universe is forever out of control
Taking things lightly must lead to big difficulties.
Simply see that you are at the center of the universe, and accept all things and beings as parts of your infinite body. When you perceive that an act done to another is done to yourself, you have understood the great truth.