What people loathe the most is to be orphaned, desolate, unworthy. But this is what princes and kings call themselves.
LaoziHe who steals a hook shall be hanged; while he who steals the state shall be crowned as prince.
LaoziExpress yourself completely, then keep quiet. Be like the forces of nature: when it blows, there is only wind; when it rains, there is only rain; when the clouds pass, the sun shines through. If you open yourself to the Tao, you are at one with the Tao and you can embody it completely. If you open yourself to insight, you are at one with insight and you can use it completely. If you open yourself to loss, you are at one with loss and you can accept it completely. Open yourself to the Tao, then trust your natural responses; and everything will fall into place.
Laozi