The way of heaven is to help and not harm.
Yielding is the manner of the Way.
Care about people's approval and you will be their prisoner.
The best soldier does not attack. The superior fighter succeeds without violence. The greatest conqueror wins without struggle. The most successful manager leads without dictating. This is intelligent non aggressiveness.
Seek not happiness too greedily and be not fearful of happiness.
What is well rooted cannot be pulled up. What is firmly grasped will not slip loose. It will be honoured from generation to generation.