Go do the right thing.
It is typical of women to fester and ferment over disappointments, slights, annoyances, angers, etc.
So it is the fear, weakness, selfishness, and cowardice of onlookers that permit evil behavior to persist.
Make decisions from the strong part of you, not the weak.
Everyone's related to someone who robbed a bank or did something.
My best way of making someone admit to something's wrongness is to have them imagine that thing done to them. Suddenly then it all becomes clear.