You don't need to make your heart and your head agree. Let your head make the decision, your heart will catch up eventually.
Laura SchlessingerDon't worry so much about your self-esteem. Worry more about your character. Integrity is its own reward.
Laura SchlessingerYou guys on the white horses keep trying to save women in distress, not realizing you just end up with a distressed woman.
Laura SchlessingerIt takes courage to have a conscience when you seem to see others getting something tangible out of not bothering to struggle with the morality of a situation. It gets frustrating and demoralizing. This is precisely where character comes in. All throughout history special people have felt compelled to do what they objectively saw as right and good - even in the face of humiliation or rejection or expulsion or torture or death. That is because they believed that certain ideas were more important than individual well-being.
Laura Schlessinger