Sex, drugs, money, power etc. Just because you get to choose your master doesn't mean you aren't a slave.
LeCraeMen, specifically in the West, have no rights of passage, no way to know when they become a man. Everywhere else in the world you gotta kill a lion or stab a shark, or go on some journey, and you come back and you're a man. But here in the West, we're really kind of clueless as to what makes us a man.
LeCrae