Part of being a feminist is giving other women the freedom to make choices you might not necessarily make yourself.

If someone doesn't answer your email within six hours, it means they hate you.

If you're writing, you're starting in private. It can really be this amazing, private, freeing experience. Forget that it's for other people - that comes in later.

I would go to work from 9 to 6, go home, nap for two hours, then write from 8 to 2 a.m.

I feel lucky in that the same way I've surrounded myself with people I'm creatively comfortable with, I've surrounded myself with people who are accepting of the way that I look.

Hell hath no fury like a woman who has accidentally napped.

A huge part of the American trans population that's often overlooked are trans teenagers. Many of them are homeless, and those are not the people who are necessarily going in for a custom suit. But that's one of the reasons why we were excited that we got to do a contest with HBO to sponsor a young person getting a suit made who might not have the means to do it on their own.