All minds are interconnected. Otherwise they could not understand each other.
Love is a feeling of givingness with no thought of receiving any return for it.
Happiness is equal to one's capacity to love.
Human love is needing the other one. Divine love is giving to the other one.
The facade is the ego. It is motivated by our seeking love. The only reward is frustration, as it is only by loving that one finds love.
The more miserable you get, the less you should look for an escape (socializing, entertainment). Rather, isolate until you see and let go of the reason for it, or move into your real Self. Never let go of - through escape from misery - a good opportunity to grow.