That's the risk you take if you change: that people you've been involved with won't like the new you. But other people who do will come along.
Lisa AltherOne didn't issue instructions to comets. Grown children did what they had to do, and parents could only grit their teeth and watch and pray for them to get through it.
Lisa AltherA snake will always be a snake, even if you put a chain around its neck and try to make it walk upright.
Lisa Alther