When someone asks if you'd like cake or pie, why not say you want cake and pie?
I think people are always nostalgic for a time about 20 years before they were born.
Also, I'm always learning better and better how to prioritize and how to leave certain things for the next day.
My nutritionist always said to eat whatever you want.
I eat fish and love bacon. Plus, I don't mind if soups are made with chicken or beef stock, I just don't like eating big pieces of meat.
You get to a point in relationships where you don't want to push anything, but things need to change, move on, or develop.