Talk often, but never long; in that case, if you do not please, at least you are sure not to tire your hearers. Pay your own reckoning, but do not treat the whole company; this being one of the few cases in which people do not care to be treated, every one being fully convinced that he has wherewithal to pay.
Lord ChesterfieldTrue politeness is perfect ease and freedom. It simply consists in treating others just as you love to be treated yourself.
Lord ChesterfieldMan is more himself, man is more manlike, when joy is the fundamental thing in him, and grief the superficial.
Lord Chesterfield