In life, be a participant, not a spectator.
Momentum is whatever your attitude determines it to be.
I believe your attitude is the most important choice you can make.
Don't be a spectator, don't let life pass you by
The team that's on defense first (in overtime) has the advantage because they know whether they need a touchdown a field goal or just a score.
The freedom to do your own thing ends when you have obligations and responsibilities. If you want to fail yourself - you can - but you cannot do your own thing if you have responsibilities to team members.