So what if someone wrote your obituary... that doesn't mean you are obligated to die.
I bet you went on one date and wanted to get married.
A player has no use for an agent. None.
Behind every successful person, stands a very successful mother-in-law.
In life, be a participant, not a spectator.
You aren't going to find anybody that's going to be successful without making a sacrifice and without perseverance.