My philosophy in life is, Decide what you want to do. You have to have something to hope for.
Without self-discipline, success is impossible, period.
My wife doesn't even want to spend 2 hours with me.
I believe your attitude is the most important choice you can make.
All you need is something to say, and a burning desire to say it... it doesn't matter where your hands are.
My athletes always follow my advice... unless it conflicts with what that they want to do.