Not only do self-love and love of others go hand in hand but ultimately they are indistinguishable.
M. Scott PeckThe will to grow is, in essence, the same phenomenon as love. Genuinely loving people are, by definition, growing people.
M. Scott PeckThe principal form that the work of love takes is attention. When we love another person we give him or her our attention; we attend to that person's growth.
M. Scott Peck