The act of loving is an act of self-evolution even when the purpose of the act is someone else's growth.
M. Scott PeckWhen you consider yourself valuable you will take care of yourself in all ways that are necessary.
M. Scott PeckWhen we love someone our love becomes demonstrable or real only through our exertion - through the fact that for that someone (or for ourself) we take an extra step or walk an extra mile. Love is not effortless. To the contrary, love is effortful.
M. Scott Peck