One extends one's limits only by exceeding them.

Delaying gratification is a process of scheduling the pain and pleasure of life in such a way as to enhance the pleasure by meeting and experiencing the pain first and getting it over with. It is the only decent way to live.

If we want to be heard we must speak in a language the listener can understand and on a level at which the listener is capable of operating.

When we love something it is of value to us, and when something is of value to us we spend time with it, time enjoying it and time taking care of it.

It is only because of problems that we grow mentally and spiritually.

The path to holiness lies through questioning everything.

If we seek to be loved - if we expect to be loved - this cannot be accomplished; we will be dependent and grasping not genuinely loving.