A positive goal to strive for when disciplining would be to raise children we not only love, but in whose company we love being.
Magda GerberSadness, discomfort, frustration -- they are all valid human emotions. Why would we want to suppress them?
Magda GerberI wish children could grow according to their natural pace: sleep when sleepy, wake up when rested, eat when hungry, cry when upset, play and explore without being unnecessarily interrupted; in other words, be allowed to grow and blossom as each was meant to.
Magda GerberI have spent my adult life trying to figure out why parents and society put themselves into a race -- what's the hurry? I keep trying to convey the pleasure every parent and teacher could feel while observing, appreciating and enjoying what the infant is doing. This attitude would change our educational climate from worry to joy.
Magda Gerber