Re raising kids: Love, without discipline, isn't.

When you catch what you're after, it's gone.

Some people as a result of adversity are sadder, wiser, kinder, more human. Most of us are better, though, when things go better.

Victory is sweetest when you've known defeat.

I think the foremost quality - there's no success without it - is really loving what you do. If you love it, you do it well, and there's no success if you don't do well what you're working at.

Since you have to do the things you have to do, be wise enough to do some of the things you want to do.

For corporations to be bedfellows with the arts is good business for both. The architecture that houses a company is a more visible statement than the president's in the annual report. Ditto interiors, particularly of offices and sometimes, dramatically, in plants. For solvent businesses, support of community cultural undertakings in music, drama, dance creates great goodwill. Also, the existence of such activities is often important to the executives and their families that companies want to keep or attract to keep.