In a separation it is the one who is not really in love who says the more tender things.
Marcel ProustThe thirst for something other than what we haveโฆto bring something new, even if it is worse, some emotion, some sorrow; when our sensibility, which happiness has silenced like an idle harp, wants to resonate under some hand, even a rough one, and even if it might be broken by it.
Marcel Proust