You don't have to turn this into something. It doesn't have to upset you. Things can't shape our decisions by themselves.
Marcus AureliusNo one loses any other life than the one he now lives, nor does one live any other life than that which he will lose.
Marcus AureliusTo no man make yourself a boon companion: Your joy will be less but less will be your grief
Marcus AureliusWhy should anyone be afraid of change? What can take place without it? What can be more pleasing or more suitable to universal nature? Can you take your bath without the firewood undergoing a change? Can you eat without the food undergoing a change? And can anything useful be done without change? Don't you see that for you to change is just the same, and is equally necessary for universal nature?
Marcus Aurelius